Thursday, May 9, 2013

On My List: May 8

I'm for sure a list maker. There's a scene in some silly Lifetime or Hallmark movie that I don't even remember anything about except for the scene when she talks about how much she loves literally crossing off something on her to-do list. That's how I feel, and why I can never use my iPhone for anything like that. It's not as fun to scratch off.

But, I will share with you what is on my list of some tasks I want to accomplish before the month is over. Even if I can't literally cross it off my list on the blog, I can use my readers to hold me accountable for some projects I want to try.

1. Utilize homemade weed spray and other garden pins in our yard.
2. Finally finish the gallery wall on the stairs.
3. Meal plan binder to make my life significantly easier, because doing this every week is almost torture, even though I know it needs to be done.
4. Homemade cleaners, now that I finally have some empty spray bottles.
5. Spring cleaning and de-cluttering.

What's on your list to accomplish this month?

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Book Review: Sharp Objects

I have to admit, I jumped on the Gone Girl (Gillian Flynn) bandwagon this past year when everyone was talking about it on Twitter. I liked it well enough, but I didn't necessarily "get" why everyone was in love with it, and wasn't as involved in the story as everyone else seemed to be. It could have been all of the hype, and it could be that I didn't connect with the story as much as I expected to. But now I can understand the hype surrounding Gillian Flynn's work, thanks to Sharp Objects, which  a friend recommended. And I loved it.

Sharp Objects tells the story of a newspaper reporter sent back to her hometown to cover the recent disappearances of young girls in the hopes that it will become "the next big story" (according to her boss). She finds herself wrapped up not just in the lives and disappearances of these girls, but also the life and death of her younger sister. And as the story goes on, we see how her past, her relationship with her mother, and her relationship with her half-sister ties into the story of these girls, bringing everything together in an ending that I didn't see coming and couldn't stop thinking about for days.

What I liked so much about Sharp Objects was the constant surprises of where the story was taking me. It was darker than I ever could have imagined, but it was dark in a way that makes you think and cringe a little rather than darkness that seems forced or even over the top. The story was well-told and the characters were strong. They were flawed and we could easily understand their motivations, all culminating in the so-surprising ending.

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Chicago: The Non-Musical Edition

At the beginning of April, Nathan and I were just getting back from our trip to Chicago, which was fantastic. The weather wasn't as springy as we thought it would be, but it actually ended up being all right, because I never had to wonder if I would need a coat that day. (Hint: I always did.)


But aside from the weather woes, easily solved by coat-wearing, we really did enjoy our trip to the windy city. Here's our final itinerary, complete with my thoughts and recommendations.

Thursday: This was a half day for us, so we checked out the shops on the magnificent mile, including the American Girl doll store (Note: It was actually kind of hard to explain to someone--in this case, Nathan--the complexities that surround American Girl dolls.) Around sunset, we went to the John Hancock tower, hoping for some great photo opportunities. We got them.



Now, here is where I will preface that if we had to do this trip over again, I don't know if we would have not gone to the very top observation deck, but the bar/restaurant that's up there. We did the city pass (which I recommend a lot) which got us admission into five different attractions, with front of the line privileges. They were: Field Museum, Shedd Aquarium, Sears (Willis) Tower, John Hancock tower OR Museum of Science and Industry, and then the Art Institute OR the observatory. So, we could have gone to the Museum of Science and Industry instead if we'd just gone to the bar. BUT. While I have no comparison since we didn't go to the bar, what was kind of nice about the observatory was that we could really just walk around and take tons of photos at different places.

And here comes your next lesson. We went over to Giordano's pizza, which had been recommended, and it was a 45 minute wait when we got there. We decided we didn't want to wait, and then commenced to walk around the city for about 20 minutes trying to figure out what we wanted to eat. Somehow, we ended up at Giordano's again because we got turned around, so we decided just to eat there. Then the wait was an hour-plus. But all the time we spent was totally worth it for the most amazing pizza ever.

Friday: This was a big day for us. We went to the Field Museum AND the Shedd Aquarium. Lots to take in. The Field Museum had so many cool exhibits--one on dirt, one on cave paintings in France, and the T-Rex. We really could have probably spent a whole day here. The Shedd Aquarium was fun, as well, and there were cute baby belugas (which basically ensured that I sang the Raffi song all weekend) and an interesting exhibit on sharks. We ate dinner at Michael Jordan's steakhouse, which was amazing.

Saturday: We braved the El on the weekend to head out to the Frank Lloyd Wright house and Oak Park. As you learned before, my mom and I had looked at the houses he designed around Oak Park, but Nathan and I went inside the actual house he lived in. It was very cool for house nerds such as myself, though we both agreed that we wished there was more focus on his life than was provided. After a visit to Navy Pier, we also explored the city via water on an architecture tour, which was great because our tour guide was hilarious and also very knowledgeable.

Sunday: Now, we unintentionally booked our trip over Easter weekend, and I didn't think anything would be open that day so we got tickets to "The Book of Mormon." But, as it turned out, almost everything was open so we probably could have gone to a museum this day and might have had smaller crowds and gone to the play another night. We did go to the Sears Tower after the play though, and it was pretty busy, so maybe we planned right.

Monday: Our flight left Monday afternoon, so we spent the morning at the art institute. We hit up all of the high points and still had some time to explore some other exhibits. And surprisingly, we didn't have any flight trouble either way, except a few gate changes.

Chicago is definitely close enough to go back to, and I think there's still so much we could have done. I think a trip back is definitely in order.

Monday, May 6, 2013

April Showers Bring May Flowers

And April absence brings May blogging? That's my attempt at being creative. Obviously I am still working on getting back into this whole writing thing. But I still (nerdily) chuckled at my little joke.

To start us off, I wanted to talk about my (sort of) participation in Camp NaNoWriMo in April. If I would have set my goal at 10,000 words, I definitely would have achieved it. But 50,000 did not happen unfortunately, a lot due to motivation and some due to life.

The more times I set specific word goals, the more I realize that writing for word count is not for me. I would assume that this strategy is one that would motivate me, because I am such a scheduler and words are easy to schedule in each day. But I feel that sometimes it takes away from the actual writing process, and I feel rushed and/or overwhelmed (depending on the day), which makes writing not as fun. I don't have the time to really think about what I want to write and how I want to write it without feeling on the clock.

Several months into deciding on my own writing process, I 've learned that a deadline is important, but since this is my first attempt at writing a book, the higher word count is not going to get me there. Based on how I write and think and feel, I should be writing less so I don't feel pressured or guilty if I don't achieve whatever goal I have set for myself. Because there are some days where I really exceed my goal and others where I don't.

So I think this was my last time participating in NaNo, at least with this book based on where it is. I find that difficult because I really like the idea of it--writing as much as you can without thinking about it as much--but I know that it's not as realistic for me based on my personality. But I guess we'll see what happens come July 1...




Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Book Review: Here I Go Again

I love basically anything Jen Lancaster writes. Seriously. I find her memoirs to be (literally) laugh out loud funny and so spot on when it comes to her observations. And that didn't change when it comes to her novels, the second being Here I Go Again.


Here I Go Again is the story of a popular girl's reality 20 years later, and how her glory days of high school have affected her current not-so-glorious present. At her high school reunion, she is made aware of the success of everyone she used to look down on has had and is then given a chance to go back and change her decisions so she too will have the life that she wants. But changing the outcome of everyone's life won't be as easy as she thought.

What I love about this book is the character development, and how Lissy eventually realizes what truly matters to her and what kind of life she wants to lead. I thought that it was hilarious, yet also had serious undertones that tugged at my heartstrings, such as the relationships between parents and children, popular kids vs. not popular kids, and of course, Lissy and the men in her life.

I also love the high school reunion concept and even though I didn't go to high school in the '80s, I loved all of the pop culture references. I have always looked forward to my high school reunion, even when I was in high school, but now that it's a year away, it doesn't seem to be as exciting as it once was. I have often wondered what effect Facebook has had on reunions, in that it used to be you would learn all about people from your past every 10 years or so, but now, you know what everyone's up to every 10 minutes or so. But what's super fun about this book is that Lissy uses Facebook in her book, which I always love to see.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Chicago Book Reviews: Ernest Hemingway

I love Ernest Hemingway, as evidenced in this book review of The Sun Also Rises and The Paris Wife. And I have been lucky enough in my travels to see two of his (many) homes.

Oak Park is where Ernest Hemingway was born and raised, and back in 2010 my mom and I were able to tour his childhood home and the museum that is also in Oak Park.



Both were very enlightening for me in terms of learning about Ernest Hemingway and his early life and how that played into the person and the writer he became. Plus, I love touring any kind of historic house. Definitely worth checking out (with the Frank Lloyd Wright houses) should you ever find yourself in Chicago.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Chicago Book Reviews: Loving Frank

One of my favorite things about reading is all of the places you can go just by opening a book. But one of my other favorite things traveling and actually seeing some of the places in a book. And since Nathan and I spent Easter weekend in Chicago, I thought I dedicate a week to the city, featuring novels that take place in or around the city.

The first of these books is Loving Frank, by Nancy Horan. I read this several years ago after my mom and I took a trip to Chicago to celebrate my graduation. We actually spent the day in Oak Park outside of Chicago, which is not only a Frank Lloyd Wright destination but as we found out, an Ernest Hemingway destination. But more on Ernest tomorrow--today we're focusing on Frank.

Mom and I spent the afternoon on a walking tour checking out some of the masterpieces in the area, or as the web site calls it, the Frank Lloyd Wright Historic District. Here's one of my favorites. Wouldn't you love to live here?


But back to the book. Loving Frank is the story of the relationship of Mamah Borthwick Cheney and Frank Lloyd Wright, which starts when Mamah and her husband commission Frank Lloyd Wright to design a home for them. Both have spouses and children, but soon the relationship between the two quickly deepens into something deeper.

The story takes us through their affair, to Europe and back to Chicago, and we see this affair through their perspectives on how it changes their lives and the effect it has on their families, particularly their children. We see Frank and Mamah through each other's eyes and see them grow and change over the course of the relationship.

The characters in this book are real, in that I didn't necessarily love them all of the time. But it was easy to see the love they had for each other, which is most obvious in the end. And the end. So much to say about the end, but don't want to ruin it.